It seems like it's many, if not every woman's dream to get a man to look at them with twinkling eyes and fall instantly in love with them. But even though this seems so romantic and perfect, we have to understand that there is so much more to a relationship than just love at first sight. Yet, more importantly we need to understand that there is no perfect guide that will guaranty a man falling in love with you.
Yes you could follow media or guides telling you to exploit your body, or flirt with every man on the earth, and yes, get a man's attention, but that is not the attention you should want, or that you deserve. You deserve a loving man who loves you for more than your body. A man that falls in love with who you are inside, and who appreciates your entire being:)
Though sadly, these awesome men aren't all that easy to find or get, for they want the real deal, not the cheap stuff. So here are some things you could do to express to the world who you are, and what you are all about....But again, doing all of this may not get you a man in a day, week, month, or year...but it will give the people around you a better understanding of who you are...and hey, you never know...the true you that you express may just be exactly what the perfect man is looking for!
Yes you could follow media or guides telling you to exploit your body, or flirt with every man on the earth, and yes, get a man's attention, but that is not the attention you should want, or that you deserve. You deserve a loving man who loves you for more than your body. A man that falls in love with who you are inside, and who appreciates your entire being:)
Though sadly, these awesome men aren't all that easy to find or get, for they want the real deal, not the cheap stuff. So here are some things you could do to express to the world who you are, and what you are all about....But again, doing all of this may not get you a man in a day, week, month, or year...but it will give the people around you a better understanding of who you are...and hey, you never know...the true you that you express may just be exactly what the perfect man is looking for!
1. WALK WITH YOUR HEAD SO HIGH THAT HE CAN'T MISS YOU!
If you want to let the world know how awesome you are, you better stand boldly in your beliefs and who you are! Be confident in your decisions, and don't allow anything to hold you back from being the true YOU!
We all love those people who are secure in themselves, and understand their worth. They take nothing from anyone, and walk so proud and elegant. They make you want to be like them and are amazing motivators!!
So why not be that person? Actually you've always been that person, but know it's time to show it to the world. So for now on, you should walk with your head high, shoulders straight, and let confidence be the only thing you exemplify!
We all love those people who are secure in themselves, and understand their worth. They take nothing from anyone, and walk so proud and elegant. They make you want to be like them and are amazing motivators!!
So why not be that person? Actually you've always been that person, but know it's time to show it to the world. So for now on, you should walk with your head high, shoulders straight, and let confidence be the only thing you exemplify!
2. BE SO DIFFERENT THAT YOU STAND OUT FROM THE CROWD!
Another way to get his attention, or the world attention really, is to stand out. Don't camouflage or follow the crowd, do your own thing, and be YOU!Don't follow trends just because everyone else is doing it, create your own style and wear it proudly. Don't go the direction everyone else is going, take a turn, and live your life the way you want to live it!
Yes, all of this will take bravery, but I know you have the strength! We were all born unique, to stand out, and shine bright! So show your uniqueness, don't hide any longer. Be yourself, and follow your won arrow, do whatever you want to do, not what others want to do.
People will see you, for you'll stand out, and hopefully motivate others to do the same. People will also have more interest, and want to know more about you...for you are new and different, and not like the crowd behind you who all are the same.
3. BE SO PASSIONATE THAT THE ONLY THING HE CAN DO IS STAND IN AWE!
Just like you should be confident in yourself, and you unique, you should also be passionate to live life! You should love your life, the past, the present, and the future! You should be optimistic, and positive about everything...for life is mean to be lived with excitement and eagerness!
Don't let your mistakes from the past, or stress about the future hold you back from living an amazing life! Live in the moment, for you only live once...and should go YOLO with it!
Also don't let other's problems and hatred prevent you from having fun, that's their problem...you are to busy anyway living your life to the fullest!!
Besides who doesn't like passionate people? Aren't they the best. They make the best out of every situation, and strive for most amazing things!!
So now it's your turn to join the club, and be a passionista!! People will see you, and notice your positive energy...it may even rub off on them...and influence them to be passionate as well!!
Don't let your mistakes from the past, or stress about the future hold you back from living an amazing life! Live in the moment, for you only live once...and should go YOLO with it!
Also don't let other's problems and hatred prevent you from having fun, that's their problem...you are to busy anyway living your life to the fullest!!
Besides who doesn't like passionate people? Aren't they the best. They make the best out of every situation, and strive for most amazing things!!
So now it's your turn to join the club, and be a passionista!! People will see you, and notice your positive energy...it may even rub off on them...and influence them to be passionate as well!!
4. BE FEARLESS amp; TAKE THE RISK amp; GO TALK TO HIM!
Be brave my friend! No just to go talk to him, but to take reasonable risks, and to go beyond the norm! Why stop where it's easy...why not turn up the notch, and do the unexpected?!People who take reasonable risks are the ones who usually get what they want! Don't be afraid to strive for what you want, even if people say it's impossible!...remember that everything is impossible until it is DONE!! So go do it! Take chances, and go for your dreams!
Who knows, he may have been to shy to talk to you first, and seeing you approach him may be his dream come true?? Or the one thing everyone told you, you couldn't do, you end up doing, and proving them all wrong?? Or you may even end up having the best experience of your life, which you wouldn't have never know, if you never said yes to the chance..
Build up your bravery, for you already have the strength...now all you have to do is say YES!
5. BE SO ROUTED IN YOUR SELF-WORTH THAT NOTHING NEGATIVE CAN AFFECT YOU!
This is like confidence, but to the next level! You can not be truly confident in yourself, until you know exactly who you are, and what you stand for! That is why you have to be so routed in yourself, and understand your worth, before you can express that power within you.
So take the time to find out who you truly are, and what you want in life, so no one can determine that for you! If you don't know who you are or what you want, people will manipulate you for their own gain.
So realize that you are not what others say you are, you are what you say you are! You are your actions, your decisions, and your intentions...not others opinions, or hatred.
Focus on yourself, and better yourself...not to brag to the world, but to let them know that you confident and POWERFUL in who you are!!
So take the time to find out who you truly are, and what you want in life, so no one can determine that for you! If you don't know who you are or what you want, people will manipulate you for their own gain.
So realize that you are not what others say you are, you are what you say you are! You are your actions, your decisions, and your intentions...not others opinions, or hatred.
Focus on yourself, and better yourself...not to brag to the world, but to let them know that you confident and POWERFUL in who you are!!
6. AND REMEMBER THAT YOUR WORTH IS NOT DETERMINED BY A MAN'S LOVE...IT'S DETERMINED BY YOU!
Lastly, and more importantly please remember that your worth is NOT determined by a man's love, but by YOU!So many of us ladies, think we are nothing, and that we are worthless because we are single, or have never had a man fall in love with us. We forget about how much we are worth, and only want to hide in darkness and cry.
But remember my dear that you are worth SOOO much more than you could ever imagine! Please do not hate yourself because a man has not been able to see your awesomeness! Continue being the amazing YOU that you are, and one day the perfect man will realize how wonderful you are (in and out), and ask for you hand...just be patient!!
